I’ve got a POWERFUL topic for you good men out there today.
It relates whether you are single or in a relationship….
…because it has to do with something that affects EVERY man in relation to women. Even if getting into a relationship seems like a faraway or impossible dream, but you want to be far more naturally attractive in relating to women…
…OR you are in a relationship and want more connection with your partner…
Then LISTEN UP and keep reading. I recently read an article by a marriage counselor who “told all” about what he saw in his practice in working with couples to iron out their relationship problems.
Specifically, this intriguing article was about the TRUTH he uncovered in working with women who leave men they actually LOVE, and WHY they leave them.
He explains how these women lost attraction for these guys, even though they are good men and the women know they are GOOD, SOLID MEN.
The women even sometimes feel SHAME that they aren’t attracted to them anymore and just “have to” leave them. When I first read the article, my reaction was immediately defensive.
After all, women have their issues too, right? Well, that’s certainly true, because we’re all human.
We’ve all got our issues.
So how in the HELL could this be the fault of men? I thought: “Oh God, not another emasculating article!”
But…
This WAS NOT an emasculating article, I actually agree with this counselor, and thought he was RIGHT!
WTF?!?!
As I read deeper into his words, I really saw the truth not only in his words, but in my experience of being with women, and how much how I show up affects how attracted to me they are.
To how connected we both feel, and how easy or tough my interactions are with them.
Believe me when I tell you, I’ve both had success and plenty of failure in the women department.
So here’s what the marriage counselor said, that completely BLEW my mind away…
” As a marriage counsellor working with men and women in relationship crisis, I help clients navigate numerous marriage counselling issues.
While many situations are complex, there’s one profoundly simple truth that men need to know.
It’s this…
Women leave men they love.
They feel terrible about it. It tears the heart out of them.
But they do it.
They rally their courage and their resources and they leave.
Women leave men with whom they have children, homes and lives. Women leave for many reasons,but there’s one reason in particular that haunts me,one that I want men to understand:
Women leave because their man is not present.
He’s working, golfing, gaming, watching TV, fishing…the list is long.
These aren’t bad men.
They’re good men.They’re good fathers.
They support their family.They’re nice, likeable.
But they take their wife for granted.They’re not present.
Women in my office tell me “Someone could come and sweep me off my feet, right out from under my husband.” Sometimes the realization scares them. Sometimes they cry.
Men – I’m not saying this is right or wrong.
I’m telling you what I see.
You can get as angry or hurt or indignant as you want.
Your wife is not your property.She does not owe you her soul.
You earn it. Day by day, moment to moment.
You earn her first and foremost with your presence, your aliveness.
She needs to feel it. She wants to talk to you about what matters to her and to feel you hearing her.
Not nodding politely. Not placating.”
-Justin Schanfarber, Counselor, British Columbia
My eyes were wide open as I read those words above.
Because I felt the truth ringing in my soul.
Why?
Because in the past several months as I’ve more and more mastered the Natural Confidence Mindstate, I’ve been at the height of ease and calm, especially around women.
Which has GREATLY affected my PRESENCE.
It’s been more effortless than ever in attracting women naturally and effortlessly.
Before that it was alot more work, and every time I tried to get women to like me, it often failed.
Not all the time, but times when I tried really hard, it always backfired in the end.
Why am I so much calmer and present with women?
It’s because there’s less on my mind, I’m able to be more in my body, “in my balls” and way more present.
Yep.
It’s so true that women intuitively respond to Presence over anything else.
Not only that, we as men are able to pick up the sometimes very subtle signals way more easily because when we are present, our minds are all clouded with negative thoughts about ourselves, about women or about what we should do or say even.
It’s really weird how it works, but it is so powerful.
So whether you are in a relationship…
Or SINGLE…
Cultivating your PRESENCE is so HUGE for sexual attraction and connection from women towards men.
It’s literally like the secret sauce or the magic pill.
In fact, I was talking with my new friend and awesome dating coach Thom Carey about this the other day.
We were talking about how upping our levels of presence literally changed everything and allowed us to bypass tons of “inner work” or even “inner game” development.
Thom understands the Natural Confidence Mindstate as well, and as we both talked about how settling into presence made interactions with women feel so much more like magic that can just “happen.”
So I’m curious…
As a MAN, what are you struggling with the most right now?
And what do you WANT, as man?
Yes – I’m talking about women…but also in ANY AREA of life including career, success, friends and family relationships…and more.
I want to hear from you.
So let me ask you brother…
Are you are a good guy who has roadblocks with attracting the beautiful and high-quality women you desire – whether you want to casually date, have fun flings or find an ideal woman for a long-term relationship?
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