Have you ever seen that TV show Seinfeld?
Even though the show is off-air now, it’s classic crazy comedy, and one of the craziest characters hands down was George Costanza.
There was one ESPECIALLY funny episode.
It was an episode where George did the opposite of what he’d normally do.
He saw this really attractive woman.
Usually he’d walk up to her and brag about how successful he was and basically lie to her trying to get her to go out with him.
But this time he decided to do the opposite and tell the truth. He told her that he was short, bald, without a job and lived with his parents – still.
The woman said yes to him RIGHT AWAY.
Later in the episode, he ends up getting an interview with the NY Yankees baseball team.
Instead of sucking up to the team’s owner, he decides to tell the truth about how they stink as a baseball team and why they’re making stupid choices.
The owner decides to hire him on the spot!
Every time George did something opposite of what he normally did, he was successful.
And guess what?
The same goes for confidence & attraction with the women you want, too.
People that talk about fancy techniques in order to build attraction & confidence to “get” women to like you.
But that’s no fun.
Trying to trick yourself and other’s into believing you are attractive & confident when you don’t feel it never works in the long run.
Especially if you want to be magnetic!
So take a look at what you are doing, and consider doing things like George would.
Try doing THE OPPOSITE of what you normally would do in meeting and attracting women.
I know it’s simple and nothing fancy but it’s actually really powerful!
Here’s a clear example:
Instead of making advances on her by telling her how beautiful she looks or that you want to take her out… playfully say things like:
“I know you we’re checking me out… come ON admit it! You’re busted!”
“just say it…that you want to ask me out, it’s OK, better to be honest and come out with it now.”
And flash a little sexy smirk.
The key is to do the opposite WHILE being playful.
You might be really surprised at the shifts you might just have.
Counter-intuitive for sure!