What are you doing tonight?
Because for you tonight could be THE NIGHT?
What kind of night, you might ask. 🙂
A night where things could be different or that your life could TOTALLY CHANGE.
I mean that.
But before I get into that, I want to share what my weekend looks like as a formerly shy guy, who helps others do the same.
For me, it’s a rare weekend where I’m staying in and NOT socializing out on the town.
Though I did have a little shindig over here at the apartment last night for St. Patty’s day with some friends.
Got a Tinder date tomorrow in the afternoon with really cute chick.
I usually don’t like doing afternoon dates, but I’m experimenting with something…
…I’ll let you know how it goes, if ya want, just hit reply and I’ll tell you what I find with my experiment. 🙂
But if you’re a shy & introverted guy I’m going to encourage you to get out of the house this weekend whether in the day or at night…
And do your best to get somewhere where women are…because they ain’t gonna come to your doorstep!
Or if you’re doing app or online dating get out on a date if ya can!
Either way I’m going to keep hammering you with the value of transforming from a shy introvert into a social introvert or an “outrovert” just like I’ve done for myself.
It’s a MAJOR piece shy guys need to work on (who tend to be introverts) in order to more effortlessly attract women they want.
Some guys think they can get the girl without social skills or being social…
…and while you can, you are SERIOUSLY handicapping yourself by not playing a more social angle.
In fact, I talked to a guy recently who wanted to coach with me, and I had to tell him no, because he didn’t want to be social at all…had no friends…and wasn’t willing to build up his social network AT ALL.
Sorry dude, that’s not gonna fly.
Women can FEEL IT when you have a social life or not, or are a social guy.
It’s really easy to meet new women when you have a social group to leverage.
Whether that’s through get-togethers, or going out on the town with friends, here’s no substitute.
Yes you still have to talk with people and of course women.
And the truth is, you can create a social group around you by going out alone if you know what you are doing which is VERY ATTRACTIVE to women.
You need to be talking to both men and women when out and women pick up on that.
Don’t worry about if the women are all attractive or not…women just like guys talking to ANY women.
I know you probably think that what I’m saying is crazy and that you just want to “get the girl” straight out…but attraction doesn’t work like that especially with the HOTTER women.
Sorry buddy, I had to learn the hard way and I’m just trying to save you some time here.
AND it didn’t used to be this way for me.
If you are sittin’ on the couch, and wishing you could go out, but are too nervous too, or anxious to talk to women (or people even or feel rusty)…
…I GET IT MAN.
I spent many nights like that too.
It’s OK, no judgment here.
But I eventually ended up forcing myself to go out alone especially once I discovered I had anxiety both around people and certainly attractive women.
I knew I wanted to conquer it from holding me back to having the life I wanted as a man.
And maybe you don’t really want to go out at night, but the daytime instead.
Maybe thought you aren’t even planning to go out during the day on the weekend coming up or don’t have many people (or any) to hang with but you want to.
I get that too. The pull to stay in the house is way easier than facing your fears.
So I encourage you to GET OUT of the house now man.
And if you just can’t right now because you’re too shy or afraid too I GET IT man…
…instead go ahead and go through my Good Guy’s Guide To Magnetically Attracting Women – it will inform & inspire you!
If you do choose to go out tonight, you might be able to watch it before you go out.
And even if you’ve already watched the guide I encourage ALL of you to watch it, or watch it again if you already have.
I know without a doubt, it will help you if you are the shy & introvert type which is my specialty in helping.